How 3 Dads Successfully Co-Parent 2 Kids in a Living Setup They Call ‘Crazy’
Three dads who are co-parenting two children are opening up about their unusual family arrangement and why they believe it works despite the challenges. The parents described their setup as “crazy” but explained that communication, shared responsibilities, and putting the children first have helped them create a stable and supportive home environment. Their story has sparked conversations online about modern parenting, family dynamics, and alternative co-parenting models. While unconventional to many, the family says their focus remains on raising happy, healthy children and making decisions together as a united parenting team.
Million Dollar Nannies features, among others, a family with three co-parenting dads raising twins, Beau and Coy, together
The dads, known as @Our3Dads on social media, share their unique family dynamic and parenting journey online
In the first episode, two “mannies” compete for the affection of the dads’ sons Coy
The first episode of Million Dollar Nannies sheds some light on the unique lives of the rich and fabulous, and one family of clients had a unique living situation that they expected their nannies to adapt to.
During the episode, nannies Liv McMahon, Jack McCann and Mitchell Bienvenue were tasked with taking care of the twins Beau and Coy, for their fathers — all three of them to be exact.
The family is made up of the three fathers who co-parent the twins together and are known for their social media accounts under the handle @Our3Dads, where they document their unique living situation. On the show, the dads broke down exactly how they had come by their unique living situation.
As he explained on the show, Mark Ebinger, 59, (Daddy Mark) was once married to Tom Freeman, 71, (Daddy Tom), and the two had twins, Beau and Coy, with the help of a surrogate. After divorcing, the couple was adamant they didn’t want to break up the family, and so Freeman decided to stay with the family. Later, Mark remarried Moke Coffey, 62, (Daddy Moke), and since then has acted as the twins’ third dad. “We’re all here for the kids,” Ebinger said on the episode.
“As crazy as it seems, it works,” Mark said in a confessional. The family is also expecting one more baby this year.
During the show, McCann competed with another member of the group, fellow “manny” Mitchell Bienvenue, to win the job of nanny for Ebinger, Coffey and Freeman’s son, Coy. Another nanny, Liv McMahon, was given the job of working with the trio’s daughter, Beau.
Bienvenue and McCann try to win the affection of their young client, with McCann confident that he will win the task, given that he, like the three dads, is also gay.
The first episode also followed other nannies, like ex-nanny for the Kardashian-Jenners, Leah Barrs, who is the woman behind the Ibiza agency and her best friend Sydney Siegel as they struggled to navigate the demands of their pushy new employers, Miami-based dentist Camila Guiribitey and her mother Taty Guiribitey.
Speaking with PEOPLE back in October 2025, the trio told PEOPLE adamantly that they were “not a throuple.” “We’re three parents raising our kids together.”
The living arrangement wasn’t always easy, Moke told PEOPLE at the time. “I had hesitation, of course. It was very awkward for me because, finally finding someone for myself, I still had to share with Tom.”
Nevertheless, he quickly formed a strong bond with Beau and Coy. “I went up to the room in Denver and I sat there and played with them,” he said. “Little did I know Mark had me on a nanny cam to see if I passed the test, and apparently I did.”
The family also remains close to their surrogate, Ashley. “Ashley had Coy and Beau for us, and she’s very much in their life,” Mark explained. When Beau was about 5, she told her dad she missed having a mother. “That just broke my heart,” Mark said. “So we called Ashley and she said, ‘Now we have to make it happen in a bigger way.’”
